Monday, October 22, 2018

WEEKLY MEANDERINGS


It is Sunday night and all through the house all is quiet,
Ken is safe in his bed and I am cheating on my diet
When suddenly I remembered, the GAZETTE must be done
How could I possibly miss out on that fun?
Poet and don’t know it but alas, my feet show it!

We had a good week and enjoyed our visit with niece, Debbie, from Indiana. We were sorry when it was time for her to return home to her dear family.  She missed her granny’s despite our best efforts to keep her occupied.  Terri took Monday off and they did a girl’s celebration of Debbi’s birthday and on Tuesday, Debbie and Ken took the train to Santa Barbara for lunch on the pier to complete her visit to California.  I was disappointed that a medical situation prevented me from accompanying them but life is what it is!  We sent her home, hopefully, not looking a day older than when she left, despite adding another year.  Unfortunately, she apparently picked up a bug during our visit and plans to call her Doctor tomorrow in hopes of gaining some relief from symptoms that sound like a cold.  I have heard reports of some inconvenient symptoms from a bug that tend to hang on.  We are hoping that we did not contribute to her current discomfort.

Wednesday and Thursday found us making routine visit to our Doctors with both of us being referred for further tests and oversight.  I have been having a problem with my eyes and the Doctor suggested that I should see my eye Doctor for follow up.  Likewise, Ken has been having a problem that seems related to his throat and he has a further test scheduled to check that.  He also had a lung function test this week and we await the results of that test.   Whatever did we do when we did not go to the Doctor at least once a eek and sometimes, more than that?
 
We completed our week with a lovely brunch celebrating Terri’s birthday served by Marci and Lauren out in the lovely new landscaped yard at Gary and Marci’s.  Gary had a skin cancer removed from the bottom of his foot and it developed blisters that curtailed his walking so he was home to join in the celebration. 

We have completed this week with dinner prepared and served by our friends Phil and Sheri.  They had invited us to join them for dinner but Ken has been having some shortness of breath that has curtailed his activities.  I was afraid that it was too much for us to plan on doing an afternoon out after Church and I was right.  So, since Ken could not come to dinner, Phil brought dinner to us.  Terri assisted while Ken and I assumed the role of royalty under the guise of “old age”.   Life is good!
Today is Ken’s brother, Don’s, birthday.  They are helping some friends move their furniture from Florida to Arizona and thus, we did not want to call him while he was driving and this evening when we should have called, we had company.  Nevertheless, we remembered him and wished him a Happy Birthday via Facebook but I am not sure he got that either.

Lauren left this morning for Kauai, HI.  She texted that they were checked in and ready to enjoy the sights and sounds of the Island.  We could not resist suggesting things for them to do and see while on the Island.  However, it sounded like they had planned their week without our assistance.  We just want them to enjoy and have a great time.  This is her first trip to Kauai and though we believe it is the prettiest Island in the chain, it is not the liveliest for the young.  We did try to prepare her for a more subdued lifestyle, but we hope she and her friend will liven the Island with their special charm.
The election is nigh and I have my absentee ballot at hand and Ken has completed and mailed his.  California has a lot of bond issues on the ballot and though many sound good and I would like to support them, the State has no shame when it comes to spending money it’s taxpayers do not have.  So far, I am inclined to vote yes on only one and that is to override a gas tax that is burdensome and ill conceived.  I also have a bit of an elitist attitude (i.e., deciding what is good for people over their own decision-making attributes) and deciding what is good for others by voting against increasing taxes that must be repaid by my children and grandchildren.  That, of course, may be in opposition to how they vote but Mother and/or Grandmother knows best!

Below you will find my latest meanderings of political thought.  Whether you read further or not is solely your decision. Your reading pleasure is not defined by my rant on a given day.  Have a good week!

The recent Kavanaugh experience has increased my awareness of just how concerned I think we all need to be for our country and the course we are on.  I am concerned for our Constitution and the rule of law that supports our rights under its guiding principles.  Admittedly, I have a conservative view of life.  While the view of others may be more progressive, ambitious or liberal in perception, I firmly believe that our disagreements are not liberal or conservative but rather who we want to be and how we achieve that end.

We all see the world from a personal perspective and that perspective varies in relation to our lifestyle, experiences and expectations. We see answers to problems from our perspective and experiences. Thus, it is important that we be introduced to and understand differing and alternative views if we are to reach a sustainable resolution to our problems in an understanding that differing views can be a framework to real solutions.  In today’s world, idea exchange and respect for alternative views has been rejected and exploration of ideas is no longer a welcome endeavor. When our institutions of higher learning cannot or will not allow people of different thought processes on their campuses, can we honestly believe that free speech abides there? 

Discourse of thought and sharing of ideas as to alternatives has been reduced to attacks bordering on violence that conveys a vulgar and tyrannical approach to opposing views.   As I hear the increasingly aggressive rhetoric that encourages hostility I am appalled.  I do not believe any of my friends or family engage in such actions. However, commitment to a few broadly shared values and party loyalty  assures their vote to reinforce that rhetoric and my heart breaks.   I do not know anyone personally who has joined the mobs on the street, many of whom wear masks to protect their identity.  Neither have I heard any outcry or criticism of these actions.  In fact, some of our high placed representatives have gone on record as encouraging the mob.  Do they not understand that they, by their simple statements of support are sitting the stage for further violence?  The potential of impact upon our way of life because of not condemning the actions of a mob mentality is enormous. The “protesters” are paid to convey the views of an employer(s) who hide(s) from the limelight and risks no liability.  In fact, the mob mentality that is active in creating discord among us is no better than those who we readily identify  as offensive and condemn, namely   the Klu Klux Klan, Communist, Nazis etc.  In fairness, the latter group does not hide behind masks and mislead us as to their intentions.  

I urge friends, family, citizens and responsible people everywhere to look at the issues confronting our country and consider the repercussions of your decision on election day.  Whether you are a supporter of President Trump, a “never Trumper”, Democrat, Independent or one of the new Socialist, look closely at your candidate’s vision for your country.  Even though we may know our representative as a member of our community, will he or she vote a vision that is compatible with what you believe and want for our country.  It is not enough to vote for the man or woman who we know to be a good, honorable person committed to the principles and philosophy that we believe in. He or she must have an open mind and a commitment to a way of life in which you can believe.  
We need to ask ourselves, will the person for whom we are voting be respectful of the views of others and willing to consider alternatives ideas? Will he or she vote the party line as reflected in the current trend for mob rule or support the rule of law that protects our Constitutional rights? 

What do the candidates really believe beyond that which they think will get our vote?  The votes we  cast may determine whether we live in a country governed by Constitutional rule of law or a country of mob rule.  We cannot take our choices lightly. By ignoring the rhetoric, we may be encouraging further dysfunction and even violence and is that what any of us want?  We must remain true to ourselves and beyond that, think beyond today or our children, grandchildren and those who come after us will inherit the results of our decisions.  Go vote but know for whom and what you are voting.